Start by acknowledging the child's feelings and experiences. Showing empathy helps to de-escalate tension and demonstrates that you understand and care about their perspective. This step is vital for building trust and rapport.
Clearly and calmly state the specific behavior or issue that needs to be addressed. Focus on the behavior, not the child, to avoid making them feel attacked or judged. This helps to clarify the problem and sets the stage for finding a solution.
Conclude with a clear, concise statement of the desired behavior or outcome. This provides the child with a clear understanding of what is expected and how they can improve. Be specific and direct to ensure there is no ambiguity.
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